One feels joyful on the date of birth even if simplest or none of the preparations were made. I often wondered about this . What is the point in being gleeful on starting a life which is more of challenges than harmonies. So our inner intuition responds for some higher meanings of life.
On passing four decades, i am in effort to attribute some reason or aim to my being. Simply putting, to define your life in a frame line of reason is quite a difficult thing.
By Allah’s grace, every life is a multi dimensional contribution in the making of whole world. We all are doing a lot without any determined reason.
And a life of substance is marked when someone establishes harmony between possibilities, challenges, desires and high goals. So all the years and moments of life must be enriched with positivity, tolerance, care, harmony and love, neglecting bad emotions and negative things. Aggression and offence is no solution to any problem.
Best of wishes on this 20th Feb.