Can Water Be Dry?

Can water be dry

We all are very familiar to a topic, that is, which language to learn as a priority and which one is to be ignored? In our way to find a suitable answer for this question, we must have a clear definition of “language”

Language is a communicating tool at the first place and it also contains all the flavour of its specific background. You can never remove this flavouring content from a language. It’s just like having DRY WATER. So if there can’t exist any dry water, there can’t be a language without its cultural flavour

Letting a language enter your world, you can’t escape the cultural impact of it. It comes all together. There could be some questions popping in the minds at this point. How can we manage this cultural impact of a language? How many languages could be adopted then? Does this cultural impact really matters

Yes, it does. In a very effective and long-lasting way. We must be fully aware of this fact. And in the mean time, we must have a clear picture of the importance that a language holds

Learning one language never means to ignore the other one. Every language has its own place and purpose. Not one can take the place of the other. This is the very point to be made clear at all levels. This shift in the vision will affect the whole perspective regarding areas of learning, teaching, behaving, speaking and thinking

You cant reach your roots if you keep at a distance from your native language. Roots are what meant for originality, simply. An origin is from where all your existence finds it’s all traits and trends. It’s the way you behave, apparently and inside. The way your gesture reflects and your thought flows

You can have a proof of this concept if you have ever tried to copy a person of any foreign language. Or whenever you tried to speak to a kid in his accent. You cant get the very idea of a book in a foreign language until you are aware of the cultural flavour and spice of that language. Foreign songs take you to the feeling of that specific culture. So, . . . .the language must be taken as a tool and meant to contain a whole set of thinking and behaviour

Frankly speaking, one or more foreign languages must be adopted for the means of approach and exposure and the native language must have a firm connection within a person to solidify the originality. It all goes smooth without any confusion. It must never be taken as a matter of classification

Parenting: Objectives


Parenting: Objectives

Creator’s most beautiful gift on earth is a human in its purest form. It’s a child. . . . púre, innocent and unpolluted. A child reflects how is he been brought up and made into a grown-up by his parents. Even an old man can’t hide the traits of his childhood in his grey hair and wrinkled smile.
It is not a case of direct proportion, it needs real study and observation to be understood that how things work in the case of a child. In the formation of a personality out of a child, things may turn out un-expected. Being very strict with kids may not always bring out positive results. It’s a practice that our previous generations adopted and been contented about it. They produced a whole generation under vert strict rules, an obedient and compromising generation. Generally speaking, this generation was characterised by either being reluctant or shy people, or being un-naturally arrogant as an adverse reaction, with exceptions, of course.
It’s not more than a century passed on the planet that children were at distant and strict relations with parents in all the regards. Time has proved that this behaviour was on one side of the required balance. So there emerged the very opposite reaction of this behaviour. We all surely have seen parents who were so confident to over-pamper and spoil their kids. This behaviour wasnt a natural one either. It came out as an impulsive reaction.
For an ideal situation between kids and parents, i dont consider myself any authority to have a say, but on the basis of observation and experience, let me say that there must be some clear objectives determined.
In many cases, people misplace this objective. Many parents take solace from their past experiences while treating their children. Its a sort of self compensation. One does what ever he desired or missed in his childhood.
On the other hand, some people get so much emotional fog inside themselves which leads them to develop a senseless outlook. So we find them unreachable to the psychological understanding of their kids. Parents of this category leave hollow spaces in the foundation of this basic relation. They never mean it intentionally but they do so in the practical sense.
Since undoubtedly, parent’s role is of an ever-lasting impact in a person’s whole being. No one can deny the fact. To the extent that a dead parent’ s role keeps on going in a person’s life. This is a bare fact that has to be placed on priority levels and evaluated in this way.
Whatever may be a parent’s circumstances, they must consider their child as a whole person, who once started breathing, will continue to grow physically and mentally. And being a parent, one is responsible to raise valuable useful persons who can play their valid role in the society. This responsibility increases when we consider our society which has a lot of chronic  problems inter-woven and deep-rooted through history.
For every step taken toward the child, a parent must have to throw lights over a long-range, use perception based on solid experiences, to analyse and evaluate all the pros and cons, and to have a deep insight in the child’s mind. This all has to be included along with the objective while treating this great responsibility. A responsibility that every parent owes to the society and history.